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Operation: Momma Ain’t Making Dinner

March 27, 2014 By Laura 14 Comments

kids make dinner

Alexis cooking

The Rules

1.) (And I cannot stress this one enough) Momma Ain’t Making Dinner. The kids are. They can make easy dinner recipes — they just have to not be made by me. It’s Spring Break. On Tuesday it occurred to me — four kids. Four weekdays left. ‘Nuff said.

2.) Each kid plans dinner one night. They must find the recipes, plan the menu, write the shopping list, and shop with me at the store for ingredients (after checking to make sure we don’t have them at home.) Then they need to make it.

3.) Every dinner must include at least one serving of protein and at least one serving of vegetables. Dessert is optional (Bwahahahaha! No one opted out of making dessert. Shocker.)

The Players

1.) Tim — boy; aged 11

2.) Alexis — girl, aged 8

3.) Caleb — boy, aged 6

4.) April — girl, aged 3

The Menu

Tim’s night: Homemade pizza (he made two, loaded them down with veggies, and argued that should satisfy the vegetable rule. The Judge allowed it), ice cream sundae bar

Alexis’s night: Spaghetti and meatballs, peas, Nigella Lawson Chocolate Fudge Cake (oh yes, she did…that’s my girl!)

Caleb’s night: Corned beef (cooked according to package instructions), “lettuce with ranch dressing” (not salad. Lettuce only), dessert trail mix (this is tonight. I believe it involves popcorn, M&Ms, chocolate chips, and…who knows? If it’s good, I’ll share the recipe here. But I did have to veto mixing in an entire tub of vanilla frosting.)

April’s night: “We have chicken!” She needed a little guidance. We’ll be making Crockpot Cranberry Chicken, served over rice, and asparagus. For dessert, “I make ice cream!” And so we shall. Our first homemade ice cream of the year.

pros

The great things about the challenge:

-Pizza with faces

pizza

-The working on fractions that always comes with cooking (“Oops. I can’t find the 1c measuring cup. You’ll have to use the 1/2c. Now what?”)

-New recipes (hello, again, Nigella Lawson Fudge Cake. I both love and fear you, you delightful, ridiculously chocolatey confection.)

-Unexpected alone-ish time with each kid as I helped in the kitchen. Around here when we cook, there are anywhere from 4-8 extra hands wanting to help. Because each kid gets their own day, they were all willing to allow each other their own time to cook with Mom. A lovely bonus.

-(hopefully) The beginnings of children who will be self-sufficient when they leave this house someday, and will not survive only on cereal and Top Ramen (or, if they do, will do it out of laziness like their mother, and not because they don’t know how to cook.)

Cons

-Only one, really: I’m not actually getting a break from cooking. I didn’t think I would be. Because at this age, when kids are in charge of anything — cooking, chores, homework — they still need grown-up supervision (and advice and motivation and…) But I’m hoping we’re laying the groundwork for them to do these things on their own one day. Maybe by Spring Break 2019, I’ll be able to veg in front of the TV and they will bring me my dinner. Holla.

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Comments

  1. Samantha says

    April 9, 2014 at 12:09 pm

    My mom did this over 10 years ago with my siblings, my best friend and I. There were three teens ad a grade schooler. Mom cooked on Fridays and we each got a night to cook- it taught us how to make a grocery list, keep within our budget and cook! I could see myself doing this with my daughters now, ages 6 and 9. Oh and bonus…my Brother is now a master chef- so it paid off for him and now we all get to eat his yummy creations 🙂

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  2. Rach D says

    April 8, 2014 at 9:19 pm

    Fun experiment!! I know most of my kids would do well at it…not sure about my youngest two 😉
    Rachael @ http://www.parentingandhomeschoolinginfaith.com

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  3. stephanie says

    April 6, 2014 at 9:25 pm

    Thanks for sharing at After School!

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  4. Laurie says

    April 6, 2014 at 9:06 pm

    You didn’t get much of a break, but the memories really make it worth while? I need to do this with my kids.

    Thank you for stopping by the Thoughtful Spot Weekly Blog Hop this week. We hope to see you drop by our neck of the woods next week!

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  5. Heather bell says

    April 3, 2014 at 7:01 pm

    I am happy to have found you! Fun idea:) I started a kid a night helps dinner this week and it’s been great. Plus the others jump in too.

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  6. Mum of One says

    April 3, 2014 at 2:30 am

    What a fantastic idea and you are right about it encouraging Maths skills too. I too am never quite sure if I adore or fear Nigella. Thanks so much for sharing with the #pinitparty. Have pinned 🙂

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  7. cathy says

    March 31, 2014 at 2:06 pm

    I LOVE this post! 🙂 What a great way to make the kids apart of what happens in the kitchen, make them proud of something they accomplished, and get them to eat what they made! Genius! Checking this out from craft-o-maniac Monday!
    Cathy

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  8. Merlinda (@pixiedusk) says

    March 31, 2014 at 12:51 pm

    This is fun =P I am doing this with my husband since the kids is too young to handle the oven. He handles dinner 2x a week! #pinitparty

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  9. Laurie says

    March 31, 2014 at 7:55 am

    I LOVE this!! I know that I need to do this more with my kids. I have kids similar in age to yours, so the results will likely be similar… although we don’t do desert, so at least that will be one less thing to factor in. Maybe I can work in a “kid week” once a month.

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  10. Ashley says

    March 30, 2014 at 8:01 pm

    Sounds like you had a lovely menu this week! We try to rotate kitchen days with our kids too. More for me then them! Three kids in the kitchen is a bit overwhelming to me!

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  11. Emma @ P is for Preschooler says

    March 29, 2014 at 10:31 am

    Love this! Even though it didn’t really involve any break for you, eventually, when they’re older, it will make it easier, I’m sure – and there was a lot of learning going on, especially about responsibility and helping family! Always a plus! 🙂

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  12. Jennifer @ The Jenny Evolution says

    March 28, 2014 at 11:31 am

    What a fabulous project! Love it and am pinning 🙂

    Jennifer @ The Jenny Evolution and @ Generation iKid

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  13. Danielle@TheDomesticFour says

    March 27, 2014 at 1:01 pm

    Love, love, LOVE this! While I would be in the same boat with the ‘non-break’ from cooking (my kidos are 3, 6, and 8) I agree about laying the groundwork and we can all kick back together in 2024! Ha!

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    • Laura says

      March 27, 2014 at 9:39 pm

      Yes! We can toast each other virtually in 10 years while our kids whip up something delicious and impressive to eat!

      Reply

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